Yes, you can use Enterprise Manager (or SQL Server Management Studio, even if it is an Express version) to connect to any SQL Server (the same or lower version as the tool you are using), you have a TCP / IP connection j. Just run it, enter the DNS host name or IP address in the "Server Name" field and click "Connect."
Two things can prevent this from working:
Your SQL Server is not configured to connect to TCP / IP. This is the default value from the 2005 version and can be changed using SQL Server Configuration Manager .
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