As far as I know, there is no functionality that will do this.
I managed to get the effect you are requesting with the following code:
public partial class Form1 : Form
{
private bool selectionChanged;
public Form1()
{
InitializeComponent();
}
private void dataGridView1_CellClick(object sender, DataGridViewCellEventArgs e)
{
if (!selectionChanged)
{
dataGridView1.ClearSelection();
selectionChanged = true;
}
else
{
selectionChanged = false;
}
}
private void dataGridView1_SelectionChanged(object sender, EventArgs e)
{
selectionChanged = true;
}
}
This uses the dataGridView SelectionChanged and CellClick events, as well as a class level variable containing the selection state.