Silverlight 4 added the LayoutStates concept to the ListBoxItem control, this allowed you to add animation for state transitions, including things like BeforeLoaded to AfterLoaded. Unfortunately, this functionality is not baked in WP7 (based on Silverlight 3).
There are some workarounds until changes to the Mango release, including the ColinE solution, are mentioned.
: # WP7 ListBoxItems / # 3: Windows Phone 7