You must reinstall Xcode using the Snow Leopard DVD version. After that, the iPhone SDK will need to be installed again.
Edit: I just noticed that Apple started distributing Xcode 3.2 with the iPhone 3.1 SDK. I would recommend that you try to completely remove the developer tools, as described in the SDK release notes (see Developer.apple.com), and then reinstall it. You should also check that each computer has a unique name set in the system settings â sharing. As a last resort, I would check that Snow Leopard booted in 32-bit mode (by default), and (for the test only) would try to load Snow Leopard in 64-bit mode (hold keys 6 and 4 at boot).
Edit 2: Check this thread , it seems to be related. Perhaps you should try enabling Xgrid in sharing settings?
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