As Alfabravo commented ... now it's possible to change the color of the XSSFSheet tab.
sheet.setTabColor(int colorIndex)
used for this and therefore if we use
sheet.setTabColor(num);
num = 0 : set the color to black on the tab.
num = 1 : set white color on the tab.
num = 2 : set the red color on the tab.
num = 3 : set the green color on the tab.
num = 4 : set the color to blue on the tab.
num = 5 : set the yellow color on the tab.
and so on.
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