No, as far as I know, source JARs do not consume additional RAM.
There are bandwidth considerations for always downloading Javadoc and a source for third-party libraries, so perhaps, in the name of saving a few dollars, they do not include the source in their distributions and suggest that users can download it themselves if they wish. In the case of maven, for example, it really doesn't make sense to load the source for your dependencies at three levels, so only the class files are cached in order.
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