For the previous project, we had a website that had to βrecordβ in order to open a new website below. This was achieved by recording the image of a burning piece of paper, and then involving those who were good at graphic manipulations for cleaning and looping the video - this was done in Flash.
What you can do is apply this technique to your candlestick video. Find out which shots you need to simulate all the states you want to create, including tipping over and blowing out flames, and recording them. Then pass this on to someone who can create animation loops.
Obviously, something like this will cost a little money, but it will create a better result.
Realistic flame is really hard to use the graphics engine, and it will look fake - if you do not have a big budget.
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