The date format option is for the format that appears when it appears in the text box to which the collector applies.
see my updated version of your violin:
http://jsfiddle.net/TmdM8/1/
as you can see, when you pcick in the text box and select the date, it is in the format you specified.
as far as I know, the getDate function returns a javascript date.
EDIT: if you want to format the output from javascript date, you will need to use a custom script or library like date.js (I have had great success with this).
http://code.google.com/p/datejs/
so you can do something like:
$('#datepicker').datepicker("getDate").toString('dd-MM-yyyy');
to get the date in the format you like
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