If kernel.request is slow, this is not necessarily a problem with symfony.
you must optimize your server by upgrading Apache with php-fastPGM instead of the standard php module.
you must also activate the cache manager, e.g. php APC, which reduces a few more requests.
For example, I am running a symfony project on a raspberry pi. Before these settings, one query with 8 database queries took about 25 seconds to display. After these settings, the page was displayed in less than 3 seconds (average 2.5 s)
another list of possible settings:
http://slides.liip.ch/static/2012-05-18_symfony-speed.html#9
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