Thanks to everyone for your comments, but I managed to get the solution I needed by creating a connection that works for this instance. The best part about this is that it will work regardless of how many records the seller throws at us. In some cases, the attributes "m" work up to 9 or 10.
(1 = 1) .
ID_NUM "c", - "c2" ..
SELECT
t.recid
,t2.VALUE1
,t3.VALUE2
,t4.VALUE3
FROM t
INNER JOIN XMLTABLE('/row/c1'
PASSING t.xmlrecord
ID_NUM VARCHAR(4) path 'concat(substring(ancestor-or-self::*/name(.),1,1), @m)',
VALUE1 VARCHAR(20) path '.') t2
ON (1=1)
INNER JOIN XMLTABLE('/row/c2'
PASSING t.xmlrecord
ID_NUM VARCHAR(4) path 'concat(substring(ancestor-or-self::*/name(.),1,1), @m)',
VALUE2 VARCHAR(20) path '.') t3
ON (t2.ID_NUM=t3.ID_NUM)
INNER JOIN XMLTABLE('/row/c3'
PASSING t.xmlrecord
ID_NUM VARCHAR(4) path 'concat(substring(ancestor-or-self::*/name(.),1,1), @m)',
VALUE3 VARCHAR(20) path '.') t4
ON (t2.ID_NUM=t4.ID_NUM)