As pointed out in the comments of @JefClaes: you need to determine if your UserAR really requires a collection Friends.
Ownership does not necessarily mean that a fee is required.
Take the example of Order/ OrderLine. OrderLinedoesn't make sense without being a part Order. However Customer, to which a belongs Order, does not have a set of Orders. It may possibly have a collection ActiveOrdersif the customer is limited by the maximum number (or number) of active orders. Saving a collection of historical orders would be unnecessary.
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