I'm trying to create my own dialogue
Basic layout (I also tried various modified layouts)
<RelativeLayout
android:layout_width="match_parent"
android:layout_height="wrap_content" >
<TextView
android:id="@+id/title"
android:layout_width="wrap_content"
android:layout_height="wrap_content"
android:layout_alignParentLeft="true"
android:layout_alignParentRight="true"
android:layout_alignParentTop="true"
android:background="@color/dialogHeaderBackground"
android:gravity="center"
android:minHeight="@dimen/minHeightDialogTitle"
android:text=""
android:textStyle="bold" />
<TextView
android:id="@+id/message"
android:layout_width="wrap_content"
android:layout_height="wrap_content"
android:layout_alignParentLeft="true"
android:layout_below="@+id/title"
android:layout_marginTop="5dp"
android:text="" />
<LinearLayout
android:id="@+id/loutButton"
android:layout_width="match_parent"
android:layout_height="wrap_content"
android:layout_alignParentBottom="true"
android:layout_below="@+id/message"
android:layout_centerHorizontal="true"
android:layout_marginTop="5dp"
android:orientation="horizontal" >
<Button
android:id="@+id/btnNeutral"
android:layout_width="0dp"
android:layout_height="wrap_content"
android:layout_weight="1"
android:text="" />
<Button
android:id="@+id/btnNegative"
android:layout_width="0dp"
android:layout_height="wrap_content"
android:layout_weight="1"
android:text="" />
<Button
android:id="@+id/btnPositive"
android:layout_width="0dp"
android:layout_height="wrap_content"
android:layout_weight="1"
android:text="" />
</LinearLayout>
</RelativeLayout>
Java code
Dialog dialog = new Dialog(this);
// Dialog dialog = new Dialog(this,R.style.Theme_Dialog);
dialog.requestWindowFeature(Window.FEATURE_NO_TITLE);
dialog.setContentView(R.layout.custom_dialog);
Button btnPositive=(Button) dialog.findViewById(R.id.btnPositive);
Button btnNegative=(Button) dialog.findViewById(R.id.btnNegative);
Button btnNeutral=(Button) dialog.findViewById(R.id.btnNeutral);
TextView txvTitle=(TextView)dialog.findViewById(R.id.title);
TextView txvMessage=(TextView)dialog.findViewById(R.id.message);
...
so on and so forth
I get the following dialog, which is fullscreen, WHICH I NOT HANT

Solutions already tried that give the same results as the previous screenshot
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<RelativeLayout
xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android"
android:layout_width="match_parent"
android:layout_height="150dp" >
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