Just add a line as shown below.
<iframe type="text/html" width="640" height="385" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/[VIDEO_ID]?autoplay=1" frameborder="0"> </iframe>
With auto play, = is set as you like, either 0 or 1 (depending on whether you want people to actually stay on your page or not :)
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