I see that this is an old question, and most of the other answers are a bit outdated now, so I thought that I would add, hopefully, valuable information for those who should stumble upon this now.
In Domino Designer, open either Navigator or Package Explorer (Window menu → Show Eclipse Views). Here you can expand the databases / templates to see the design elements that they contain. Select two or three elements (CTRL-click). They can be in different databases or in one database. Right-click on one of the elements and select "Compare with →".
You can also compare two database items by item by selecting two databases / templates, right-clicking and selecting “Compare with → to each other”. You will then get the differences between the two databases listed. You will be able to see which elements differ between two databases, and which elements exist in one database and not in another. By double-clicking on another item, you open the diff tool, which allows you to see the differences by line, and you can easily copy the changes from left to right or from right to left.
Øystein Jaren Samuelsen
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