There is currently no way to return to Visual Studio Find Links
However, you can: 1) Change "Group By:" to "No"

2) Change βGroup By:β to file

Until this answers the question, I highly recommend you try Resharpers Find Usages. I must admit that I also had a problem with the Resharpers "Find Usages" window and I wanted to return to Visual Studios, but after I did not find a way to return without removing / disabling Reshaper, I find their window is much more powerful, and now I find VS one below
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