Use the widget set directly. Take a look, for example. examples in / gtk 2 packages for unix or a demonstration of using win32api on Windows. (demo \ win32 in installing FPC win32)
But not using lazarus makes you lose platform independence and is very easy.
Looking at how Lazarus does this, there is still an opportunity.
Second option http://www.msegui.org/
Marco van de voort
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