Install guest add-ons from safe mode (do not forget to select DirectX support when prompted). Make sure you are using a relatively recent (4 or newer) version of VirtualBox.
Install all Windows updates (since it is very possible that one of these updates addresses some VM related issues for Windows 7).
That's all I did, and FireMonkey works great for me both at design time and at runtime!
If you do all this and yet the controls are invisible during development ... I highly recommend reinstalling Delphi as I know others who had the same issue and reinstalling resolved them for them.
LaKraven
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