you can disable it with js, for example: just put this on your page:
<script type="text/javascript"> myVid=document.getElementById("video1"); myVid.muted=true; </script>
you must replace "video1" with the id of your iframe, if there is no identifier in the iframe, add the id to it as follows:
<iframe width="820" height="390" src="http://nyan.cat" id="iframeId"></iframe>
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