Ignoring other offers at this time, such as getting a release version that is valid. The tool that developers would be looking for is actually link.exe from Visual Studio (or SDK or WDK).
If they would like you to be able to use the debugger along with their code, they could create public PDB files for you. The options they would like to use are as follows:
/PDB:filename /PDBSTRIPPED:filename
However, I am afraid that you yourself cannot do much. PDB files themselves are separate files, and debugging information is usually not included in binaries for modern MS compilers (although some RTTI materials may be included, not to mention ASSERT file names and strings and similar macros and "functions", which is the most likely explanation for perceived bloating).
Note: binplace.exe from the WDK provides the same functions as the above flags, but has a slightly more complex (albeit suitable for the WDK build process) syntax.
0xC0000022L
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