I agree with you that setting up network devices and equipment is a tedious and boring task.
I believe this comes down to the demand for a good user interface. Customers require a pleasant interface from consumer electronics, and gamers require fairly intuitive game interfaces in their games. Since network engineering probably does not complain about Cisco, etc., This remains a lower priority.
In addition, cost is another factor. A router can be configured by a network engineer such as you, and after a few years more configuration may not be required. I would suggest that companies such as Cisco are aware of this and believe that design investments are not needed for nice user interface tools. They could save a lot of money by completing the minimum minimum in the user interface department.
Having said that, Apple is doing a very nice user experience on their consumer wireless devices like Airport Extreme. The user interface is an application that looks good, not a web interface.
On the plus side, because the network interface is usually difficult to use, it keeps you at work and makes your work more important (and higher pay). Remember the days when you were the only one who could build a computer? These days I am doing this, and this is not a real skill, since almost any high school student can do it.
Brock woolf
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