... similar to those created by email clients such as thunderbird or Outlook, sliding or disappearing from the tray.
What you are looking for is a Windows shell notification. There are quite a few implementations available.
Here is the MSDN manual and QuickStart link.
https://docs.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/desktop/shell/notification-areahttps://docs.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/desktop/shell/quickstart-sending-desktop-toast
And here is an example implementation.https://code.msdn.microsoft.com/windowsdesktop/sending-toast-notifications-71e230a2