One suggestion to add to the comment pool ...
Work to minimize the changes you make to the SLN file when committing, to make it easier to merge others.
(Of course, the same goes for others).
To illustrate, suppose your SLN file currently displays four projects:
SLN: A, B, C, D
You and the employee have changed the changes. You add project E, plus (for some reason) things are reordering:
Yours: A, E, D, C, B
Your peer changes include adding Project F:
Co-Worker: A, B, C, D, F
If you make your changes as is, then your employee should be faced with a combination of these two:
SLN: A, E, D, C, B Co-Worker: A, B, C, D, F
Nastya.
Instead, if you (carefully!) Work to minimize your differences, you can make your working copy as follows:
Yours: A, B, C, D, E
In this case, when your colleague needs to unite, they will have to face this:
SLN: A, B, C, D, E Co-Worker: A, B, C, D, F
Much easier to drain.